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"Parents residing in the northern part of London is looking for an remarkable and qualified tutor to assist their youngest child on his first steps to turning into an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this listing, you might naturally overlook the term "initial stages" as just a turn of phrase.

But, it may be the most important aspect of this distinctive job advert, as it attempts to hire a mentor for a 12-month-old.

Hundreds of responses have now been received since the unnamed family posted their request for the highly paid tutor, who must be "a uniquely qualified person".

In recent few weeks, the post has gained notice throughout the press, with several questioning why?

Progressive Approach

Adam Caller, head and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is helping the family in their quest, stated that in spite of early skepticism, he found the plan "forward-looking", and "progressive".

When he consulted the family, he mentioned they understood the atypical character of their request, and how young their son is.

However, they explained that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had waited until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural influence had already taken hold".

What exactly does the family mean by "cultural bias"?

It's "all-encompassing", the expert answered. "The manner you eat, the manner you speak".

He explained the older sibling had picked up "really subtle, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural norms. The family explained to Adam they did not want this pattern to repeat itself with their new baby.

The strategy: To engage a British tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to influence the baby from day one.

Natural Absorption

"Much of the development at the beginning here is somewhat osmotic," explained the expert.

It's through this osmosis that the family are hoping the child will pick up the English characteristics they wish to impart.

Adam noted the tutor needed to be an individual who attended "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The instructor must be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they may not realize they're doing, simply by nature," he commented.

Money No Object

The family explained to Adam the selected educator should preferably also have knowledge of or interest in horse riding, skiing, artistic pursuits and music so as to influence the child in a broad spectrum of hobbies.

Additionally though, he said the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a selection of classes so the child would be "pony-riding and starting an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's view, helping their son grow into a "English gentleman" will result in achievement and provide access.

"Taking into account the rights and wrongs of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he notes.

However, notwithstanding all this instruction in "UK identity", could the child absorb alleged cultural bias from the international family he lives with anyway?

"Absolutely", said the CEO. "They know this could fail, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'why not attempt it and let's go as soon as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he said.

Overly Optimistic

A number of in the private teaching field who express similar concerns.

An education leader, head and founder of a tutoring service, who also offer personal educators, commented that "the journey of adopting dual cultures, or actually, forming one's identity, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

The expert explained that he had moved from Asia to the Britain at the age of 7 years old, and had been brought up experiencing and living two backgrounds. He progressed to study at Cambridge University.

"The idea that one individual can serve as a representation of English culture, an individual who can somehow impart the qualities of a British gentleman onto a one-year-old child, strikes me as naive and unfeasible," he commented.

"Based on my background, employing a distinctly British tutor from early childhood will will not automatically create the result they desire.

"I did not have such a figure, and nevertheless I have been lucky enough to experience several of the experiences they hope for their son."

He stated: "The reality is, self-identity cannot be dictated from the outside; it must be embraced, and it must come from within."

Buying Britishness

Of course, Britishness is something the expert thinks can be educated – and marketed.

"I believe the reality that the international society regards us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating